The Best Sexting Tips and Examples for Men

Teasing sexts is the beginning of a good sexting session. These messages will either start a steamy conversation or decide if you need to deal with your excitement alone. It ultimately depends on your partner’s mood whether she will engage with your teasing sexts – if she does, then let the fun begin. If she’s not, it may be better to cool down by yourself (if you know what I mean).

Some examples of sexts under the Teasing category:

“It’s too bad you aren’t here right now…”
“I’m touching myself right now and thinking about you.”
“I thought of something I want to do to you tonight…”

What’s great about sexting is you can live your deepest, darkest fantasies without really having to do it if it makes you uncomfortable in real life. So, if you have things you like to fantasise about, that can be a great sext.

Requests in sexting don’t have to mean that your partner literally needs to give in or do what you ask. Requests can be part of the role play too – it encourages control and dominance over your partner, and that can be hot in sexting.

Looking back to memories with her in your bed can coax feelings of nostalgia and longing. These feelings can intensify your sexting session as you are also drawing on emotional energy, not just sexual. Using past memories in your sexts can also deepen romance in sexting.

There’s nothing that would make your woman turned on other than complimenting her and making her feel like she’s the sexiest person on earth. Compliments will fire her up inside, and you’ll thank yourself for saying them later on.

Sexting can add so much fun and excitement to any relationship – yet it can also quickly go sideways. Imagine if you and your partner are getting it on, then you suddenly say the wrong thing… you’ll only be left with blue balls. Not cool!

With that, here are eight sexting tips to ensure that you’d have the best time sexting with your girl:

Timing is everything when it comes to sexting. You wouldn’t want to send a text message that will make your girl’s eyes pop out during an important meeting with her boss. Moreover, if you suddenly send an NSFW photo through an instant messaging app, which your partner is accessing through her desktop computer – people from the office might accidentally see it! *eep* Say bye to your privacy!

If you’re not sure what your partner is doing, it would be best to know first what she’s currently up to. You can simply ask her if she’s busy (and alone) to see if it’s a good time to send an NSFW text and/or photo.

Similar to foreplay in sex, sexting also needs a warm-up. When you engage in actual sex, you wouldn't put it in immediately right? You'd have to make out and touch each other first in order to for both to reach satisfaction.

And so, don’t dive into your kinky fantasies outright – build the tension up. It’s best to ease into your sext dialogue and gradually build from there. This way, both of you will have an exceptional time with your sexting session.

Remember that when you sext, you are playing a role. Sexting is playful – and you need to be playful until the end. Your messages, photos, and/or videos can make or break your sexting session. Be sure to stick to the role of getting into something freaky with your partner until you both reach the point of satisfaction.

There are no limits to sexting – you can make it as intense as you want as long as both you and your partner are comfortable. Because you're using your imagination to make sexting worthwhile, you can dive deep into your fantasies and play it out through sexts. 

Another note, remember to only sext with your partner or a woman you trust. You wouldn't want your explicit photos spread out in the internet, would you?

How provocative can you get with the photos you send is ultimately up to you. However, be sure that you’re sending the right visuals at the right time. Don’t send a picture of your privates at the first few message exchanges. Instead, you can tease your girl by experimenting with taking photos of other areas of your body then gradually sending more sexually explicit content.

You can get inspiration from past experiences you already had with your current partner (or any sex encounters you had before) – and reference it on your sexts. You may also draw from your deepest kinky fantasies – describing in detail what you want to happen that will keep her on her toes.

Sexting is basically dirty talk in the form of text messages. Mastering the art of dirty talk through texts helps paint a visual of the fantasy you’re having with your partner who’s currently not in bed with you. Using your imagination and describing what you see through a message is an important aspect of a successful sext session. Tell your girl what you want to do with her – give instructions, and describe how your body is reacting to what she’s sending back.

The words you use in your sexts are very important. Let loose – use slang words such as “cock” instead of penis, so it will sound good in her head when she’s reading your text. You would want to keep the conversation to be more fluid. You wouldn’t want her to reply after a couple of minutes because she had to look into the dictionary to find the meaning of some of the words you use.

Sexting is not a bad thing. It’s normal, especially if you and your partner don’t live under the same roof yet. Sexting is also important in long-distance relationships to keep the sexual connection alive. So, don’t listen to the naysayers who say that sexting is bad, and you will get punished in hell for it. Be comfortable and just have fun with it!

Of course, we can’t deny that there is also a problem with sexting, especially for teens. An uncensored photo can quickly become viral in the internet space. With today’s accessibility to the internet, even underage teens can conveniently share nude photos online without knowing the possible consequences.

We recommend that you should be of age AND only send sexts to girls you trust. It would be best if you only sext with your partner, to be honest – especially if you’re going to show your face. Also, don’t engage in sexting with underage girls. You can be charged with child pornography, and you wouldn’t want that to happen.