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Illicit Encounters Experiences & Opinions UK

Experiences and opinions of other visitors that were mediated via Illicit Encounters.
4.0very good
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Illicit Encounters is a dating site for married or attached people wanting discreet affairs
  • Available in the United Kingdom and Ireland
  • Singles are not allowed to join
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Members in the UK1,400,000
Women / Men 50% 50%
From£19.99
Age 25-34 35-44 55+

14 Illicit Encounters experiences from real users

1.9/ 5
★★★★★
21%
recommend Illicit Encounters
36%
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14 reader reports
What readers liked
  • Successful affairs and ongoing relationships
  • Exciting interactions and new experiences
What readers complained about
  • Fake, bot, and auto-generated profiles
  • High membership costs and expensive upgrades
  • Hidden automatic renewal and unexpected charges
  • Scams, fraud, and blackmail attempts
  • Poor search functionality and overly broad results
50 years
CharlesVerified Illicit Encounters user ★★★★★

Total fake profiles.

Does not recommend Illicit Encounters
41 years
RebeccaVerified Illicit Encounters user ★★★★★

Clunky search engine, and having to wade through loads of people you wouldn’t get on with

Recommends Illicit Encounters
65 years
RolfVerified Illicit Encounters user ★★★★★

It's full of fake profiles. As a male, as soon as you register, you get bombarded with messages from women who can't possibly know anything about you as you've not even completed your profile. Whether this is the site itself or not, I don't know, but it's all about getting you to upgrade—and at £140 for four weeks, that's a big revenue stream.

Does not recommend Illicit Encounters
46 years
JohnVerified Illicit Encounters user ★★★★★

Auto-generated profiles, auto generated messages to try and tempt to a very expensive upgrade to read them. Worst of all, no monitoring of accounts to counter attempts at fraud or outright prostitution.

Does not recommend Illicit Encounters
35 years
TVerified Illicit Encounters user ★★★★★

Bots Scam

Does not recommend Illicit Encounters
52 years
TomVerified Illicit Encounters user ★★★★★

They craftily take payments from your account without asking. It says it's in their T&Cs. It's an underhand way of conning people out of money I used them in 2010 and it was ok. Met someone, had a laugh. This time, lots of very suspicious females. Chat for a bit, then ghost. No doubt all fictitious. DO NOT USE. Trust me, I've tried them all; they're a con

Does not recommend Illicit Encounters
55 years
MarkVerified Illicit Encounters user ★★★★★

As others have noticed, the payment terms contain a significant scam: the automatic renewal provisions are not highlighted and are deeply buried in the terms and conditions. I am usually very careful about these things but was still caught. I think it’s a significant revenue stream for them and they bank on those who are caught not being in a position to complain too much for reasons of privacy. If it was not being done deliberately then requests for refunds in clearly genuine cases would be treated fairly and sympathetically. Instead the T&Cs are strictly relied upon as a sort of ‘gotcha’. Avoid.

Does not recommend Illicit Encounters
56 years
john thomas ★★★★★
Does not recommend Illicit Encounters
45 years
John ★★★★★
Does not recommend Illicit Encounters
41 years
Raj Naik ★★★★★
Does not recommend Illicit Encounters
62 years
Andrew ★★★★★
Recommends Illicit Encounters
45 years
Vijay Arora ★★★★★
Does not recommend Illicit Encounters
60 years
David ★★★★★
Does not recommend Illicit Encounters
60 years
N Thorn ★★★★★
Recommends Illicit Encounters
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